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PostSubject: I feel kinda selfish sometimes   Sun Apr 22, 2012 11:00 am

I dunno where this thread really fits in but I've been thinking about this a lot lately. When I chat with people online (strangely enough I don't have this problem IRL) I realize that in these conversations I always end up talking about myself somehow and don't really know the person I'm chatting with at all. It feels a bit off.

But maybe I shouldn't blame myself, there are times when I've said I'd be more than happy to learn to know the person I'm chatting with instead but nothing really comes out of that. I guess I'm just venting about this and wondering if it's my fault or if this is normal? I dunno.

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PostSubject: Re: I feel kinda selfish sometimes   Sun Apr 22, 2012 12:32 pm

I sorta feel that way sometimes... but it is usually when some stranger is trying to chat with me. They write me up, but I honestly don't care at all about them... so I don't even want to ask them about themselves. XD
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PostSubject: Re: I feel kinda selfish sometimes   Sun Apr 22, 2012 1:19 pm

I feel the same way. Mindtrip moment: every post in this thread beings with "I" and has most of the sentences with the same basic format.

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PostSubject: Re: I feel kinda selfish sometimes   Sun Apr 22, 2012 3:36 pm

In this thread: we angst about suddenly coming to a realization well into adulthood that's supposed to occur in adolescence, with self-demonstrating posts.
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PostSubject: Re: I feel kinda selfish sometimes   Sun Apr 22, 2012 3:36 pm

This might be an issue if you weren't actually aware of it.

I think it's just how some conversations are destined to be. Some people are listeners; some people are talkers.

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PostSubject: Re: I feel kinda selfish sometimes   Sun Apr 22, 2012 3:47 pm

Wolf-Bone wrote:
In this thread: we angst about suddenly coming to a realization well into adulthood that's supposed to occur in adolescence, with self-demonstrating posts.
In this post: we forget that were part of the furry fandom, and this is a regular occurrence

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PostSubject: Re: I feel kinda selfish sometimes   Sun Apr 22, 2012 4:09 pm

Huh, could've sworn I posted in this.

When I think more closely this issue might not count for me because when I do try to ask people to tell me more about themselves I'm used to being ignored or told there isn't much to tell. But still, I feel kinda selfish. >_>
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PostSubject: Re: I feel kinda selfish sometimes   Sun Apr 22, 2012 4:11 pm

Kellie Gator wrote:
Huh, could've sworn I posted in this.

When I think more closely this issue might not count for me because when I do try to ask people to tell me more about themselves I'm used to being ignored or told there isn't much to tell. But still, I feel kinda selfish. >_>
Im one of those people
I just dont like talking about myself most of the time

Ill go on and on in forums about shit in my life, but in one on one situations, I dont liek chatting about myself because I feel like Im boring people...which I probably am

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PostSubject: Re: I feel kinda selfish sometimes   Sun Apr 22, 2012 4:19 pm

this is the only place I talk anything about myself. most of my friends don't even know I was homeless. I could TRY to talk to people about my life, but it comes off as me just being a drama whore/emo.

and there's not much to talk about in terms of me as a person. I as a person, am not that interesting, so I usually just talk about the other person. Not a single fuck wa
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PostSubject: Re: I feel kinda selfish sometimes   Sun Apr 22, 2012 4:44 pm

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this is the only place I talk anything about myself. most of my friends don't even know I was homeless. I could TRY to talk to people about my life, but it comes off as me just being a drama whore/emo.

and there's not much to talk about in terms of me as a person. I as a person, am not that interesting, so I usually just talk about the other person. Not a single fuck wa
Dude, I've always wondered what being homeless is like!
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PostSubject: Re: I feel kinda selfish sometimes   Sun Apr 22, 2012 4:48 pm

Kellie Gator wrote:
MiloTime wrote:
this is the only place I talk anything about myself. most of my friends don't even know I was homeless. I could TRY to talk to people about my life, but it comes off as me just being a drama whore/emo.

and there's not much to talk about in terms of me as a person. I as a person, am not that interesting, so I usually just talk about the other person. Not a single fuck wa
Dude, I've always wondered what being homeless is like!

yea, uh... it's a real hoot pokerface
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PostSubject: Re: I feel kinda selfish sometimes   Sun Apr 22, 2012 4:51 pm

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Kellie Gator wrote:
MiloTime wrote:
this is the only place I talk anything about myself. most of my friends don't even know I was homeless. I could TRY to talk to people about my life, but it comes off as me just being a drama whore/emo.

and there's not much to talk about in terms of me as a person. I as a person, am not that interesting, so I usually just talk about the other person. Not a single fuck wa
Dude, I've always wondered what being homeless is like!

yea, uh... it's a real hoot pokerface
Oh man it sounds like a blast!
Milo why do you get to have all the fun inglip

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PostSubject: Re: I feel kinda selfish sometimes   Sun Apr 22, 2012 4:57 pm

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MiloTime wrote:
Kellie Gator wrote:
MiloTime wrote:
this is the only place I talk anything about myself. most of my friends don't even know I was homeless. I could TRY to talk to people about my life, but it comes off as me just being a drama whore/emo.

and there's not much to talk about in terms of me as a person. I as a person, am not that interesting, so I usually just talk about the other person. Not a single fuck wa
Dude, I've always wondered what being homeless is like!

yea, uh... it's a real hoot pokerface
Oh man it sounds like a blast!
Milo why do you get to have all the fun inglip

oh yea, I got to spend weeks in total isolation, not having to worry about annoying friends talking to me, keeping me company. allthe
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PostSubject: Re: I feel kinda selfish sometimes   Sat May 05, 2012 7:52 pm

Sup Kellie.
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PostSubject: Re: I feel kinda selfish sometimes   Sun May 06, 2012 2:05 am

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Sup Kellie.
All sorts of crazy shit is going on in my life and you've probably changed your name so I'm not sure who you used to be? Pliio?
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PostSubject: Re: I feel kinda selfish sometimes   Sun May 06, 2012 2:07 am

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Sup Kellie.
All sorts of crazy shit is going on in my life and you've probably changed your name so I'm not sure who you used to be? Pliio?

No, no, Pliio's taking a break from the forums right now. Barnabus is Fuzzy Alien.

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PostSubject: Re: I feel kinda selfish sometimes   Sun May 06, 2012 3:01 am

Yeah, what he said, Fuzzy. Hi Kellie.
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PostSubject: Re: I feel kinda selfish sometimes   Sun May 06, 2012 4:22 am

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Yeah, what he said, Fuzzy. Hi Kellie.
EVEN BETTER. I missed you so much. ;w;
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PostSubject: Re: I feel kinda selfish sometimes   Sun May 06, 2012 4:24 am

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Yeah, what he said, Fuzzy. Hi Kellie.
EVEN BETTER. I missed you so much. ;w;

Aww, how sweet of you to say. Nice to see you too. Smile
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PostSubject: Re: I feel kinda selfish sometimes   Sun May 06, 2012 4:31 am

Barnabus wrote:
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Barnabus wrote:
Yeah, what he said, Fuzzy. Hi Kellie.
EVEN BETTER. I missed you so much. ;w;

Aww, how sweet of you to say. Nice to see you too. Smile
Feels like I'm derailing my own thread but I'll just add this, for some reason my Skype's being weird and it just says "pending contact request" on you in my Skype contact list, so I dunno how to contact you. o_o
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PostSubject: Re: I feel kinda selfish sometimes   Sun May 06, 2012 4:41 am

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Feels like I'm derailing my own thread but I'll just add this, for some reason my Skype's being weird and it just says "pending contact request" on you in my Skype contact list, so I dunno how to contact you. o_o

What is your skype name?
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PostSubject: Re: I feel kinda selfish sometimes   Sun May 06, 2012 4:46 am

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Kellie Gator wrote:
Feels like I'm derailing my own thread but I'll just add this, for some reason my Skype's being weird and it just says "pending contact request" on you in my Skype contact list, so I dunno how to contact you. o_o

What is your skype name?
Kellie Gator, like always.
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PostSubject: Re: I feel kinda selfish sometimes   Sun May 06, 2012 4:51 am

Kellie Gator wrote:
Barnabus wrote:
Kellie Gator wrote:
Feels like I'm derailing my own thread but I'll just add this, for some reason my Skype's being weird and it just says "pending contact request" on you in my Skype contact list, so I dunno how to contact you. o_o

What is your skype name?
Kellie Gator, like always.

Yeah it's not letting me add you. I have tried contacting you. I don't know what else I can do.
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