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+13MiloTime katmandu deployingtecharmor Lunar Tank Abuse Zoe Azure Maya Kaizy RickyBobbyMew Lucy Taz XoPachi 17 posters |
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XoPachi
Humor : Anything Posts : 4054 Join date : 2012-09-22 Age : 30 Location : EVAC Industry
| Subject: Open Relationships Wed Jun 05, 2013 11:34 am | |
| How do you guys feel about them? Personally, I never gave a shit who my girlfriends slept with or how many as long as she's responsible about it. You know: condoms, only people both of us trust, tells me first (and that's tell not ask, if I don't know/like the guy I'll deny it), all other manners of birth/STD prevention. That kind of thing. I never found it as cheating because it's merely physical and casual to me. If I find that she's been spending A LOT of time with someone else over me, in and out of the sack, then I'm stepping in. Though I understand the sentiment of cheating by sex.
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Taz
Humor : Suggestive, Dry, Sardonic Posts : 1349 Join date : 2011-10-30 Age : 30 Location : The Vast Expanse of Northern Canada
| Subject: Re: Open Relationships Wed Jun 05, 2013 12:49 pm | |
| - XoPachi wrote:
- How do you guys feel about them?
Personally, I never gave a shit who my girlfriends slept with or how many as long as she's responsible about it. You know: condoms, only people both of us trust, tells me first (and that's tell not ask, if I don't know/like the guy I'll deny it), all other manners of birth/STD prevention. That kind of thing. I never found it as cheating because it's merely physical and casual to me. If I find that she's been spending A LOT of time with someone else over me, in and out of the sack, then I'm stepping in. Though I understand the sentiment of cheating by sex.
Thoughts? Yeah I felt like that once upon a time, but then I started liking a guy a lot and I felt jealous just thinking about it. | |
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XoPachi
Humor : Anything Posts : 4054 Join date : 2012-09-22 Age : 30 Location : EVAC Industry
| Subject: Re: Open Relationships Wed Jun 05, 2013 2:01 pm | |
| I can understand that. I felt like that at one point, but then the fact that she still came back to me made me feel better.
My thing is that, I know how people can get bored of the same thing and so sometimes they want to try something/one different. So to circumvent that, I just allow an open relationship. | |
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Lucy GTW Trailer Park Supervisor
Humor : Shit hawks. Posts : 5184 Join date : 2011-10-23 Age : 30 Location : Everywhere and nowhere.
| Subject: Re: Open Relationships Wed Jun 05, 2013 3:17 pm | |
| Well, I am currently in one, but it's because of the long-distance thing.
I honestly don't think intelligent people would make each other not fuck other people if they couldn't fuck each other.
Also, HAI TAZ <3 | |
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RickyBobbyMew
Posts : 307 Join date : 2013-04-29
| Subject: Re: Open Relationships Wed Jun 05, 2013 3:46 pm | |
| I used to be staunchly opposed to open relationships but eventually I realized this was because of my own insecurities. Although open relationships aren't for everyone, they can work if you have really good communication and trust. After all, it's just sex... A relationship shouldn't be based upon sex. If it is, it will usually fail -- sex eventually becomes a repetitive task and however much you still enjoy it with that one person, over and over and over again, there will always be that next "better thing."
I think that's one reason MOST people choose to be in a committed relationship. They are afraid if they choose to fuck other people, their partner might find someone better and move on. The other reason is selfishness -- they don't want to share that "special something" with anyone else. While I can see the appeal in exclusivity, and I'd probably choose to be in a committed and closed relationship under the right circumstances, there is definite pragmatic value in being able to mess around with other people. | |
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XoPachi
Humor : Anything Posts : 4054 Join date : 2012-09-22 Age : 30 Location : EVAC Industry
| Subject: Re: Open Relationships Wed Jun 05, 2013 3:49 pm | |
| And I completely agree. You forgot one other thing too... Religion. | |
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Lucy GTW Trailer Park Supervisor
Humor : Shit hawks. Posts : 5184 Join date : 2011-10-23 Age : 30 Location : Everywhere and nowhere.
| Subject: Re: Open Relationships Wed Jun 05, 2013 3:51 pm | |
| Religion is the root of all evil anyway. | |
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RickyBobbyMew
Posts : 307 Join date : 2013-04-29
| Subject: Re: Open Relationships Wed Jun 05, 2013 3:51 pm | |
| - XoPachi wrote:
- And I completely agree. You forgot one other thing too...
Religion. Yeah, that's true. That one didn't cross my mind, since it doesn't really apply to me. | |
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XoPachi
Humor : Anything Posts : 4054 Join date : 2012-09-22 Age : 30 Location : EVAC Industry
| Subject: Re: Open Relationships Wed Jun 05, 2013 3:52 pm | |
| Yeah. It can fuck up shit though. It's not as common around here as I thought it would, but it still happens to a lot of couples. | |
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Kaizy Admin
Humor : Sin Posts : 6179 Join date : 2011-10-18 Age : 32 Location : Bed
| Subject: Re: Open Relationships Wed Jun 05, 2013 6:53 pm | |
| Im a bit borderline myself, but I have trust issues with people. So I couldnt successfully be in an open relationship myself. | |
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RickyBobbyMew
Posts : 307 Join date : 2013-04-29
| Subject: Re: Open Relationships Wed Jun 05, 2013 7:08 pm | |
| - Kaizy wrote:
- Im a bit borderline myself, but I have trust issues with people. So I couldnt successfully be in an open relationship myself.
Don't you think that's a problem, in itself? I can relate, since I've had my own security issues in the past. Relationships are built on trust, however. It's good you realize you have problems so you can work on them and eventually overcome all of it. I like to think I've gotten over most of mine. At least, I think that's the case =P | |
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Kaizy Admin
Humor : Sin Posts : 6179 Join date : 2011-10-18 Age : 32 Location : Bed
| Subject: Re: Open Relationships Wed Jun 05, 2013 7:12 pm | |
| - RickyBobbyMew wrote:
- Kaizy wrote:
- Im a bit borderline myself, but I have trust issues with people. So I couldnt successfully be in an open relationship myself.
Don't you think that's a problem, in itself?
I can relate, since I've had my own security issues in the past.
Relationships are built on trust, however.
It's good you realize you have problems so you can work on them and eventually overcome all of it.
I like to think I've gotten over most of mine. At least, I think that's the case =P Im sure I can work on my trust issues, its just going to take a lot of work, both on my end and for whoever wants to deal with any of my dumb bull. But the fact of the matter is, I dont see myself in an open relationship at all. Even if I did work on my issues, Id be more of a closed relationship kind of person. | |
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RickyBobbyMew
Posts : 307 Join date : 2013-04-29
| Subject: Re: Open Relationships Wed Jun 05, 2013 7:35 pm | |
| That makes sense.
Like I said, I can really do either/or, so I see the appeal in both. | |
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Taz
Humor : Suggestive, Dry, Sardonic Posts : 1349 Join date : 2011-10-30 Age : 30 Location : The Vast Expanse of Northern Canada
| Subject: Re: Open Relationships Wed Jun 05, 2013 8:01 pm | |
| - Lucy wrote:
- Well, I am currently in one, but it's because of the long-distance thing.
I honestly don't think intelligent people would make each other not fuck other people if they couldn't fuck each other.
Also, HAI TAZ <3 Heya there Lucy. Now why you gotta go posting a welcome like that. Just when I thought most were ignoring me. Awe, shucks you little greeter you~ | |
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Taz
Humor : Suggestive, Dry, Sardonic Posts : 1349 Join date : 2011-10-30 Age : 30 Location : The Vast Expanse of Northern Canada
| Subject: Re: Open Relationships Wed Jun 05, 2013 8:04 pm | |
| - RickyBobbyMew wrote:
- I used to be staunchly opposed to open relationships but eventually I realized this was because of my own insecurities. Although open relationships aren't for everyone, they can work if you have really good communication and trust. After all, it's just sex... A relationship shouldn't be based upon sex. If it is, it will usually fail -- sex eventually becomes a repetitive task and however much you still enjoy it with that one person, over and over and over again, there will always be that next "better thing."
I think that's one reason MOST people choose to be in a committed relationship. They are afraid if they choose to fuck other people, their partner might find someone better and move on. The other reason is selfishness -- they don't want to share that "special something" with anyone else. While I can see the appeal in exclusivity, and I'd probably choose to be in a committed and closed relationship under the right circumstances, there is definite pragmatic value in being able to mess around with other people. Awe shiet. You got me and my boyfriend down in that profiling. I mean I would be terrible jealous, and maybe a little angry at first. Eventually though I would just say "Yeah that's not so bad." I also remember, nobody is going to make him cum from sex for the first time again. Ah, memories. | |
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Maya
Posts : 1137 Join date : 2012-09-23 Age : 31 Location : Auckland, New Zealand
| Subject: Re: Open Relationships Wed Jun 05, 2013 10:24 pm | |
| My relationship is just plain weird. | |
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Lucy GTW Trailer Park Supervisor
Humor : Shit hawks. Posts : 5184 Join date : 2011-10-23 Age : 30 Location : Everywhere and nowhere.
| Subject: Re: Open Relationships Wed Jun 05, 2013 10:24 pm | |
| Dolphins are known rapists. | |
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Maya
Posts : 1137 Join date : 2012-09-23 Age : 31 Location : Auckland, New Zealand
| Subject: Re: Open Relationships Wed Jun 05, 2013 10:25 pm | |
| - Lucy wrote:
- Dolphins are known rapists.
lol'd heartily | |
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XoPachi
Humor : Anything Posts : 4054 Join date : 2012-09-22 Age : 30 Location : EVAC Industry
| Subject: Re: Open Relationships Wed Jun 05, 2013 10:25 pm | |
| - Lucy wrote:
- Dolphins are known rapists.
Wolves you scrub. | |
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RickyBobbyMew
Posts : 307 Join date : 2013-04-29
| Subject: Re: Open Relationships Wed Jun 05, 2013 10:31 pm | |
| - Greg wrote:
- My relationship is just plain weird.
Weird, or weird for a furry? :V | |
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Taz
Humor : Suggestive, Dry, Sardonic Posts : 1349 Join date : 2011-10-30 Age : 30 Location : The Vast Expanse of Northern Canada
| Subject: Re: Open Relationships Wed Jun 05, 2013 10:36 pm | |
| - Lucy wrote:
- Dolphins are known rapists.
My character in an RP is probably going to get raped. | |
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Maya
Posts : 1137 Join date : 2012-09-23 Age : 31 Location : Auckland, New Zealand
| Subject: Re: Open Relationships Wed Jun 05, 2013 11:31 pm | |
| - RickyBobbyMew wrote:
- Greg wrote:
- My relationship is just plain weird.
Weird, or weird for a furry? :V Weird for a furry, at least weird for a New Zealand furry at any rate. | |
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Azure
Posts : 219 Join date : 2012-12-16 Age : 40
| Subject: Re: Open Relationships Wed Jun 05, 2013 11:36 pm | |
| - Greg wrote:
- RickyBobbyMew wrote:
- Greg wrote:
- My relationship is just plain weird.
Weird, or weird for a furry? :V Weird for a furry, at least weird for a New Zealand furry at any rate. how weird give us details upon its weirdness why is it weird why is new zealand why is it furry | |
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Taz
Humor : Suggestive, Dry, Sardonic Posts : 1349 Join date : 2011-10-30 Age : 30 Location : The Vast Expanse of Northern Canada
| Subject: Re: Open Relationships Thu Jun 06, 2013 12:03 am | |
| - Azure wrote:
- Greg wrote:
- RickyBobbyMew wrote:
- Greg wrote:
- My relationship is just plain weird.
Weird, or weird for a furry? :V Weird for a furry, at least weird for a New Zealand furry at any rate. how weird
give us details upon its weirdness
why is it weird
why is new zealand
why is it furry I second this motion. Anybody that wants the motion to carry say "Aye" | |
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Zoe I <3 Tentacles
Humor : Consentacles Posts : 2308 Join date : 2012-07-02 Age : 32
| Subject: Re: Open Relationships Thu Jun 06, 2013 12:10 am | |
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