People you want to bang.

foxy_boy wrote:

MiloTime wrote:

the feeling that you're more to someone than a toy.

if a guy told me that they'd rather cuddle than have sex, I would be ecstatic, cause I know this guy wants to lie next to me and talk, or even just stare into eachothers eyes.

I want that :c

While that sounds fantastic, it's really unlikely and that's just not how real men are most of the time, sorry.

Zylphia_Armstrong wrote:

That's because that's the Demographic you hunt for. SO Ah-Duh you meet them. :U

You sound a bit insecure to me :/

You shouldn't have to worry about how you want to act because "oh no, I look bad"

That's just being a slave to the straight people if you ask me.

lol my goal isn't to come off as manly. I think lunar is a good example of what I strive for. when i hear her talk about her girlfriend, I feel like I can have that with someone... >_>

Lust is sexual... do you not understand the concept of lust?


And really I'm not worried about looking bad. Having sex with randoms has never once been on my agenda.
Not appealing and it seems awfully stupid, being drunk and going to clubs also seems really stupid.
I prefer to be a straight edge sort of gal, you know talk to people and get to know them and befriend them.
Then maybe have sex with them, but I much prefer the whole hugs and cheek kisses sort of thing.
You seem pretty insecure to me, you know the whole random sex and drinking binge sort of thing.

P.S. sorry if I seem kind of bitchy. I probably am. I haven't taken my pills in a few days. :/

Zylphia_Armstrong wrote:

Lust is sexual... do you not understand the concept of lust?


And really I'm not worried about looking bad. Having sex with randoms has never once been on my agenda.
Not appealing and it seems awfully stupid, being drunk and going to clubs also seems really stupid.
I prefer to be a straight edge sort of gal, you know talk to people and get to know them and befriend them.
Then maybe have sex with them, but I much prefer the whole hugs and cheek kisses sort of thing.
You seem pretty insecure to me, you know the whole random sex and drinking binge sort of thing.

P.S. sorry if I seem kind of bitchy. I probably am. I haven't taken my pills in a few days. :/

Yeah whatever, like I haven't met tons of guys with the exact same attitude. To be honest, I've tried doing things your way, but it always seems like the guy i end up crushing on is all like "Oh well I like this guy but he has a BF he won't break up with" and I'm thinking (and saying sometimes) "STFU and pay attention to guys who are actually trying to care about you like me, how many other guys wanna hear your shit about the guy you like who doesn't like you? I really don't even, but I'll listen anyways because I'm trying to get some attention"

The only guys I ever get noticed by are the ones seeking sex.

MiloTime wrote:

lol my goal isn't to come off as manly. I think lunar is a good example of what I strive for. when i hear her talk about her girlfriend, I feel like I can have that with someone... >_>

Oh, I don't try to be manly either (you ever seen me in my pink fishnets?), but the fact is a guy that's actually going to want to have a relationship, a serious one, is fairly hard to come across, don't get me wrong, I'd like the same thing as you, but I really don't focus on it, it's all chance.

foxy_boy wrote:

The only guys I ever get noticed by are the ones seeking sex.

This is why Ive lost interest in dating...the only people who are interested in me are creepy and lust filled
Turns me way off

Kaizy wrote:

foxy_boy wrote:

The only guys I ever get noticed by are the ones seeking sex.

This is why Ive lost interest in dating...the only people who are interested in me are creepy and lust filled
Turns me way off

you know what's ironic though? sometimes you feel this way, and end up never noticing another person might be feeling the same way about you.

Kaizy wrote:

foxy_boy wrote:

The only guys I ever get noticed by are the ones seeking sex.

This is why Ive lost interest in dating...the only people who are interested in me are creepy and lust filled
Turns me way off

I tend to stick to guys I already know nowadays... only the ones good at sex of course, the main reason?

If I do meet that sort of all into me cuddly guy, wouldn't you like to be at good at sex?

I mean, you don't want to lose what is seemingly so hard to find right?

MiloTime wrote:

lol my goal isn't to come off as manly. I think lunar is a good example of what I strive for. when i hear her talk about her girlfriend, I feel like I can have that with someone... >_>

I think Foxy_Boy is right about that point, though. Most guys aren't as sensitive as girls are. Girls know what feels good (both emotionally and physically) and queue in on what makes you happy.

Kaizy wrote:

foxy_boy wrote:

The only guys I ever get noticed by are the ones seeking sex.

This is why Ive lost interest in dating...the only people who are interested in me are creepy and lust filled
Turns me way off

Yeah... I get chasers sometimes. I really don't like chasers... I don't think I'll ever have sex with one again. Yuck!
I liked it way more when I was with my neighbor, he's straight as a square, but I caught his fancy because I'm just a really cute girl I guess. The times I hooked up with him were really nice, I wish he's ask me again. :p
He's so sweet.

MiloTime wrote:

Kaizy wrote:

foxy_boy wrote:

The only guys I ever get noticed by are the ones seeking sex.

This is why Ive lost interest in dating...the only people who are interested in me are creepy and lust filled
Turns me way off

you know what's ironic though? sometimes you feel this way, and end up never noticing another person might be feeling the same way about you.

Welp, thats life

lunar_helix wrote:

MiloTime wrote:

lol my goal isn't to come off as manly. I think lunar is a good example of what I strive for. when i hear her talk about her girlfriend, I feel like I can have that with someone... >_>

I think Foxy_Boy is right about that point, though. Most guys aren't as sensitive as girls are. Girls know what feels good (both emotionally and physically) and queue in on what makes you happy.

somehow I feel less hopeful that I'll ever find someone lol.

at least kaizy has a chance. lunar's already got someone who treats her like a god every single day, and even foxy boy has some dude to fuck whenever he wants. lol.

eh.

foxy_boy wrote:

Kaizy wrote:

foxy_boy wrote:

The only guys I ever get noticed by are the ones seeking sex.

This is why Ive lost interest in dating...the only people who are interested in me are creepy and lust filled
Turns me way off

I tend to stick to guys I already know nowadays... only the ones good at sex of course, the main reason?

If I do meet that sort of all into me cuddly guy, wouldn't you like to be at good at sex?

I mean, you don't want to lose what is seemingly so hard to find right?

I really couldn't care less about sex. I don't want people to touch me.

MiloTime wrote:

at least kaizy has a chance.

Milo, have you ever looked into stand up comedy?
Youre pretty hilarious

Zylphia_Armstrong wrote:

I really couldn't care less about sex. I don't want people to touch me.

THIIIIISS
I have problems with people touching me

MiloTime wrote:

even foxy boy has some lots of dudes to fuck whenever he wants. lol.

Zylphia_Armstrong wrote:

I really couldn't care less about sex. I don't want people to touch me.

Whats the fun in that?

Like you don't event want anyone to just touch you? :/

Kaizy wrote:

MiloTime wrote:

at least kaizy has a chance.

Milo, have you ever looked into stand up comedy?
Youre pretty hilarious

ohoho, yea that was totally sarcasm. (that in itself was sarcasm)

I remember at least 3 other people on this site alone back then, who wanted to date you lol

foxy_boy wrote:

MiloTime wrote:

even foxy boy has some lots of dudes to fuck whenever he wants. lol.

yes foxy. you should feel accomplished in life that you'll more than likely contract a life-threatening STD before anyone else here

MiloTime wrote:

foxy_boy wrote:

MiloTime wrote:

even foxy boy has some lots of dudes to fuck whenever he wants. lol.

yes foxy. you should feel accomplished in life that you'll more than likely contract a life-threatening STD before anyone else here

Hey, I'm clean so far :V

MiloTime wrote:

Kaizy wrote:

MiloTime wrote:

at least kaizy has a chance.

Milo, have you ever looked into stand up comedy?
Youre pretty hilarious

ohoho, yea that was totally sarcasm. (that in itself was sarcasm)

I remember at least 3 other people on this site alone back then, who wanted to date you lol

Take note of how many of them actually did something about that

Kaizy wrote:

MiloTime wrote:

Kaizy wrote:

MiloTime wrote:

at least kaizy has a chance.

Milo, have you ever looked into stand up comedy?
Youre pretty hilarious

ohoho, yea that was totally sarcasm. (that in itself was sarcasm)

I remember at least 3 other people on this site alone back then, who wanted to date you lol

Take note of how many of them actually did something about that

because you're straight :V

they were dudes lol

foxy_boy wrote:

MiloTime wrote:

even foxy boy has some lots of dudes to fuck whenever he wants. lol.

Zylphia_Armstrong wrote:

I really couldn't care less about sex. I don't want people to touch me.

Whats the fun in that?

Like you don't event want anyone to just touch you? :/

No touching bothers me because my skin is so god damn sensitive that a touch sets it on fire.

And I really see no fun in sex, never have, most likely never will.
Only reason it seems so remarkable to you is because you think it is remarkable.
Really humans are such unremarkable creatures. That's what makes them so great.

MiloTime wrote:

because you're straight :V

they were dudes lol

1. Not fully straight, been over that

2. Do you forget I had a crush on Haxx for a while?

Zylphia_Armstrong wrote:

No touching bothers me because my skin is so god damn sensitive that a touch sets it on fire.

And I really see no fun in sex, never have, most likely never will.
Only reason it seems so remarkable to you is because you think it is remarkable.
Really humans are such unremarkable creatures. That's what makes them so great.

Nah it's not remarkable to me that you don't like sex, I mean hey kaizy is some kind of boy-girl crossdresser who is asexual right? Well it might not be normal, but who am I to say it's strange right?

I mean, what is normal anyways?

foxy_boy wrote:

I mean hey kaizy is some kind of boy-girl crossdresser who is asexual right?

I kind of want to slap you for that comment

Kaizy wrote:

MiloTime wrote:

because you're straight :V

they were dudes lol

1. Not fully straight, been over that

2. Do you forget I had a crush on Haxx for a while?

I used to have a crush on haxx. then I saw what kind of person he was lol. anyway, I can't say I have a full fledged crush on you, but I'd totally date you. like, you're the guy I'd try and make conversation with in computer class :V

fuck, if I weren't so opposed to internet relationships, I'd ask you out. but I know you'd refuse, so I'd just end up humiliated

Kaizy wrote:

foxy_boy wrote:

I mean hey kaizy is some kind of boy-girl crossdresser who is asexual right?

I kind of want to slap you for that comment

Well then I owe you one xD

foxy_boy wrote:

Kaizy wrote:

foxy_boy wrote:

I mean hey kaizy is some kind of boy-girl crossdresser who is asexual right?

I kind of want to slap you for that comment

Well then I owe you one xD

It wasnt meant as a joke, but okay

MiloTime wrote:

I used to have a crush on haxx. then I saw what kind of person he was lol. anyway, I can't say I have a full fledged crush on you, but I'd totally date you. like, you're the guy I'd try and make conversation with in computer class :V

fuck, if I weren't so opposed to internet relationships, I'd ask you out. but I know you'd refuse, so I'd just end up humiliated

I stopped with Haxx because probably the same reason my current crush pretty much failed...felt like it wasnt gonna ever get anywhere so why bother

Also, I do think Ive told you before youre probably not my type and I rarely crush on anyone, let alone guys, so youre right in that Id probably decline